He wrote: “Stop supporting women you’re not married to with your hard earned income. Don’t pay her school fees, don’t buy her clothes or jewellery, don’t pay her rents, don’t even gift her airtime. You’re not her father. You’re not her God; you’re not her destiny helper. She did fine before she met you and she will definitely do fine without your money. If you don’t follow the above instructions, you will shed tears.”









